What does authentic beauty mean to you and how can you be better at believing/accepting that you are, in fact, beautiful?
I don't always think that I am beautiful.
I am going to write this as if I am talking to someone else... because we all know that it's easier to speak AND believe the Truth for others. And then maybe, just maybe, I will be able to apply that to myself.
So! Beauty. There are two images that come to mind when I think of beauty.... a very holy, devout, Catholic/Christian woman... and a thin, well-dressed woman, with long, voluminous hair, a gorgeous smile, that exudes confidence.
Both of these images are true. They do capture beautiful women, but they don't capture the WHOLE truth about what beauty really is.
I believe true, authentic beauty is being exactly who God has created you to be.
God is Beauty. He creates beautiful things. It's so hard for us to see that... our culture is so superficial, the way we look has absolutely everything to do with how beautiful we are.
It's so sad. And so not true. True, authentic beauty is deeper. It doesn't just look at your dress size, how white your teeth are, how smooth your skin is.
It looks at how incredibly unique we were created by Beauty Himself. God doesn't make mistakes. Our beauty is a reflection of Him. Each and every person, no matter what, reflects God in some way. Our environments, the way we grow up, what we learn from the media, etc. may hide those reflections, making it harder to see. But, if you look long enough or search deep enough, they are there.
Beauty is so much more than the way we look. It's the way we behave. It's the way we speak. It's the way we handle ourselves in difficult situations. It's the confidence we have in the way Our Lord created us, that gives us the grace to be exactly who we are meant to be.
And there is nothing more beautiful than being confident in the Lord. Remember that He gave you that nose, those freckles, those few extra pounds, the pimples, your passion, your voice, your ability to love and your love of collecting stamps because that is how he created YOU to be beautiful. And you alone.
|How fitting that when I was writing this post, Made in His |
Image tweeted this. :)
What does beauty mean to you? I can't wait to read these. I am in need of some encouragement in this area, so I am reeeeeally looking forward to your posts!
Keep Morgan, and everyone else going to the March for Life in DC this week, in your prayers! Because she is busy with all that prep work, I am hosting again today! So, link up below!
*Just a side note: we are open to ANYONE for this linkup. We are writing about singleness, mostly, but that doesn't mean we don't want to hear from you married ladies! We always love your perspectives, too!*
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Do you struggle with balancing the sting of hearing about yet another engagement with genuine excitement? What emotions come into play? What virtues do you enlist to help with it all?
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What would you tell your former self about being single if given the chance? What have you learned that you wish you could tell your younger self?